Flirting comes natural for most people, but there are those who find flirting to simply feel unnatural and foreign. When a person flirts they have to feel comfortable and have the confidence in themselves. It is important to know what you are worth and go after what you deserve. The fear of rejection is the number one reason why most people do not want to flirt with a stranger. Rejection is sometimes tough to handle and can do some minor damage on the self-esteem of a person. Just remember that being rejected is not the end of the world and the person who rejected you is losing out on one hell of a neat person.

5 Tips On How To Flirt:

Tip #1: Practice A Seductive Smile

It is important to practice your seductive smile. This allows you to draw in your target. Once they are in your grasp; you can easily begin a conversation with that person. Seriously, who doesn’t love a sexy smile?

Tip #2: Be Bold

Being bold can have a different meaning to the individual. Let’s say you see a cute guy/girl at another table in the bar/restaurant. Why not send them a drink or appetizer to show that you have an interest in them. The point in being bold is to grab the person’s attention in whatever action you take.

Tip #3: Got A Card? Pass It Out

You are at the bar or restaurant and you spot someone who interests you. If you have a business card with your email and/or phone number, why not go up to someone and hand them your card. Let them know you really want them to contact you. Walk back to your table or stool and you will see that this person will come chasing after you.

Tip #4: Be Friendly

Being friendly with people allows the other person to get comfortable with you. Once you have their attention, then you can turn up your charm and flirting skills. As human our brains are automatically attracted to those who we are familiar with.

Tip #5: Have Confidence

This is the single most important tip when it comes with to flirting. Showing confidence (not acting conceited) lets the person know that you have a good head on your shoulders and you choose who you talk to wisely. They will feel honored that you choose them over anyone else.

These are not your typical flirting tips. These tips take confidence and simply being bold. Own yourself and others will come your way and appreciate all that you are.

Women are always looking for new ways to turn their men on and keep them interested. With men cheating more and more these days a lot of women are trying new tactics to keep their men from straying. Being a women myself, I know every well what they are going through and where they’re coming from. This is the reason I put together this list of things women can do to spice up things in the bedroom and keep their man’s attention.

At the end of the day, these things will not only have their men smiling from ear to ear, but they’ll have the benefit of enjoying the process with them. It’s crucial in a relationship to have a happy and healthy sex life. While sex may not be everything, it is still a key factor. It’s a known fact that couples with healthy sex lives are happier and tend to last longer. This could be due in part to sex being a major stress reliever. Sex well orgasms cause the body to release endorphins which lowers stress levels and forces the body to relax.

10 Things That Turn Men On & Drive Them Wild

• Wake him up with oral sex.
• Change things up by trying some new positions.
• Wear a dress with no panties and then at the right moment whisper in his ear and let him know you’re not wearing any panties.
• Wear a sexy new outfit for him.
• Suck on his finger as if it were his “member” you were sucking on.
• Wear a wig and have him call you by a different name to spice things up.
• Whisper naughty things in his ear when out in public such as things you want him to do to you.
• Try new oral-sex technics
• While out and about or home with company pull him into the bathroom for a quickie.
• Tease him by taking things slow and you remaining in control

In society once you have reached a certain age range you are suppose to be in a serious relationship. This is not true! If you are single, I am sure you have been asked the “Why are you single?” question a several times. Don’t get upset or offended by this question. Most people don’t know your situation or your reasons of currently being single. There are many ways that you can choose to respond to this question, but what is more important is the way you choose to say it.

6 Ways To Respond To “Why are you single?” Question:

Way #1:

“Honestly, I am just waiting for the kind of loving man/woman that you were lucky enough to have found.” This kind of response will show your friend that you understand and truly want to have a good and healthy relationship. They will get off your back and never ask you that question again. Plus, they will be very flattered that you want someone like their partner.

Way #2:

“Sweetie, I just haven’t found someone who is worthy of having me.” This is a fun and not so serious response. Make sure to say it with a humor and flirtatious tone. It shows that you know you are special and deserve to have someone who will appreciate you 100%.

Way #3:

“I have wasted so much time with the wrong type of partner in the past and as of right now I am completely swamped with my career (or job).” This response is completely honest and it allows you to say out loud what has been wrong with your dating past. Now you just need to make time to go out and meet new and interesting people.

Way #4:

“If I knew the answer then I would not be single right now.” This response could definitely be said with humor and sassy. If the opposite sex is asking this question and by all means say it with a flirtatious tone. You never know what might come out of it.

Way #5:

“Actually, I am very comfortable being single at the moment. I don’t have to answer to know one and I am free to do what I please.” This response shows that you don’t need to be in a relationship to have a meaningful life. Make sure to say this response with confidence and not in a defensive tone.

Way #6:

“I just haven’t met the right person yet. I am looking for someone who is has the same level of ambitions as I do.” With this response it shows that you will not settle for anyone less than what you are worth having.

The best advice to give in regards to responding to this very personal question is to always use a confident tone. Never use an offended or sad tone when responding to the question. More important than that is believe what you are saying. There is nothing wrong with being single and enjoying life to the fullest.

Life is hard and relationships are harder. It is so easy to get caught up in day to day life and loose track of our true priorities. Once we’ve a persons heart things change. We let our guards down and stop trying so hard. After all why try and you’ve already got it, right? Wrong! You have to keep trying in order to keep it! Other wise just as fast as we got what we wanted we can loose it.

It’s been proven that most men and women tend to cheat due to a lack in their relationship whether its sexual or not. It’s important to continue making one another your main focus and to continue showing them just how special they really are to you. Relationships no matter how long you’ve been together require work. It’s true to say that the hardest and most important job you’ll ever have will be your relationship. Just as you make your 9-5 job a priority to you, your relationship should hold ever more of a priority. There are obviously some basic or common things to remember like honesty and open communication. However, those are just the beginning factors to maintaining a successful relationship. There is so much more to keep in mind and put as a priority in a relationship.

• Remember that you both are uniquely different and you both are individuals. As much as you may want to be one and the focus is to try and be as one you are still two people. It’s important to allow friend time. He needs his “guy time” just as much as you need your “girl time”. This is healthy and necessary in order to find true balance and happiness.
• Just as much as it is important to have time with friends, it is even more important to make “special time” with one another. Date nights are super important, no matter how long you’ve been together. In fact the longer you are together the more important date nights become. The point of date nights are to be able to step away from the stresses of life and focus your attention on each other. This is so important to keep the spark alive in a relationship.
• Be there biggest fan and supporter. You should always be your partners biggest fan and loudest cheerleader. This is a huge self esteem booster and removes insecurities. The fact is if you don’t support and encourage your man someone else will. This is one of the main reasons so many cheat. They lack the attention and motivation from their partners and fall for the first one to start showing them that attention.
• Spice things up. DOn’t allow things especially your sex life to become routine. Changes things up to keep the spark alive. Don’t be afraid to try new things ( try new forms of foreplay, dress up, role-play, try new positions and even new locations).
• Compliment one another and don’t forget the small stuff! Men need to hear compliments and feel loved just as much as women do. We both as human beings need to feel loved, desired and appreciated. It’s always good to hear that you look good or smell good or that your partner liked or enjoyed something you did. You should be the main person who boost your partners self-esteem. Don’t forget the famous saying ” It’s the small things that leave the biggest impact”!

Following these steps won’t will definitely help you to have a more successful relationship. However, things do happen and some people will end up cheating no matter what. Just remember if you do get cheated on it’s them who has the issue no you. Never blame yourself for someone else being unfaithful. Only a coward starts a new relationship before ending one!

Now a days it’s hard to stumble across new music you might really like. Let’s face it, the radio is not a reliable source anymore and neither is MTV. It’s all online and to find music you like online you must do extensive digging. Listening to tons of crappy music before you come across something you actually like. Needless to say, you have to invest some quality time which we don’t always have due to pending responsibilities.

I’ve concocted a little list of some new and interesting songs/bands that you must check out with the help of my trusty Marie Claire Magazine which hardly ever let’s me down.

• 1. “The Look” by Metronomy.

It’s new wave pop. An organ sets the romantic tune to this minimal, but extremely catchy riff, if you like “mellow,” you’re going to love this song!

• 2. “ELS,” by Rene Lopez.

This is not my cup of tea, but it might be yours if you enjoy “Electric Latin Soul.” It’s undeniably new and refreshing. It’s somewhat of an update of urban island rhythms. There’s congas going on tagged along with club beats. This is definitely a tune for those who enjoy dancing.

• 3. “My Mistakes,” by Elenanor Friedberger.

Elenanor Friedberge was a former member of the duo the “Fiery Furnaces, ” which was pretty good. But I guess the sister half decided to go solo. Elenanor Friedberge has an amazing voice which is well demonstrated in this song as goes from warm sounding to anxious while still remaining graceful.

• 4. “Que Que,” by Dillon Francis and Diplo featuring Maluca.

It’s a new style of dance music called “Moombathon.” It;s the next big thing to hit clubs that will make you shake that booty. It’s a mixture of reggae rhythms and weapons grade bass.

• 5. “Excuse,” by The Ettes.

This is a a feral fuzzy rock tune with snarling vocals. This trio is packing with swagger.

• 6. “Always Like the Sun,” by Release The Sunbird.

This is a song by Zach Rouge the lead singer from “The Rough Waves.” Release The Sunbird is his solo project. This song is an acoustic, wistful ballad that will sweep you off your feet.

So here’s an assortment of songs from different artists and genres. There should be something for everyone. From the rocker to the awesome female vocalist to some great, new dance music. Hope you can find an artist/new music you like from this little compilation. At the very least we sure hope it points you to the right direction of what tunes you’ve been wanting to listen to but haven’t discovered.

You’ve been racking your brain, picking flower petals and you’re still not sure. Is this guy really into you or is he just around for the bedroom play? What’s your gut telling you? We all know 9 times out of 10 the gut is always right. That still isn’t enough reassurance for you, no worries I’m here to help.

There really isn’t a SURE sign or secrete signal to let you know if a guy is really into you. In fact there are quit a few signs or signals you should take into consideration. I’ve taken the time to put together a few SURE signs he’s digging you. Remember that every guy is different and at the end of it all, listen to your gut instincts. If he’s still calling, coming around and doing the little extra things chances are he’s into you. Guys won’t usually waste their time with a chick they aren’t really into. That is unless they are desperate and just trying to get you in the sack.

1.He makes you a priority! He answers your calls and texts quickly, he goes out his way to see you and spend time with you.

2.He wants to make you happy! He’ll try doing things your way. He’ll make a fool of himself. He’ll step out of his comfort zone to see you smile.

3.He treats you like a lady! He opens your door, pulls out your seat, he walks on the outside of the sidewalk, etc.

4.He appreciates the real you! He likes you best as is. No need for all the makeup and revealing clothes, he likes you with messy hair and baggy sweats just the same.

5.He likes to show you off! He’ll be happy to introduce you to family, friends and even co-workers.

6.He believes in you! He’ll want to know what your dreams are and believe you are capable of accomplishing them.

These tips on rediscovering your Primal Instincts are inspired by an article on Cosmopolitan’s August issue on a piece written by Jessica Knoll. It’s the most interesting, harmless & certainly taps into natural primal instincts. You’ll be surprised at what gentle creatures we truly are deep inside for the most, anyway.

• - Flirt with a variety of men.

It’s a harmless way to release dopamine, adrenaline and serotonin. These are all natural chemicals and hormones that will cause you to radiate a sexy vibe which will make you irresistible to everyone.

• -Take control to insure satisfaction.

If there’s a desire or need that you wish to fulfill sexually, get aggressive/offensive and take it. Climb on top your man and initiate the exact thing that you desire you the most whether, it’s a sexual position, some form of foreplay or anything else. Indulge on your biggest craving by taking control.

• -Being affectionate.

Sure it may not sound primitive to you. But it is.Think about it, everyone longs and craves for affection of some form. The physical touch releases oxytocin which is the bonding hormone that makes you feel “in love.” It’s even nicer and so much sweeter when it’s not to initiate a sexual encounter but to demonstrate warmth and tenderness. “Touch” is way of communicating. Certain touches will convey fuzzy feelings and connection rather than the desire to have sex. Rubbing his head or snuggling against his chest feels will good to you and for him as well.

• -Foreplay

Yes, foreplay has been part of the human instinct before porn. Even animals engage in their own kind of foreplay. Quickies are okay, but foreplay should be part of your sex life. It fulfills other parts of your body and enriches other senses that intercourse can’t.

• -Prowl the dance floor.

According to experts men that can dance freely at the “moment” and are easy on the hips are not only healthy but they’re great in bed and most likely are as loose in bed as they’re on the dance floor. Hit the clubs!

So there you have it. All these may not sound primitive, like “cavemen” behavior and they’re not suppose to be. But they’re certainly primitive in nature and rooted instincts that perhaps, we have forgotten to unbury and discover. Try these while you rediscover the “primitive” in you, for a more accurate assessment of your sexuality as a woman and what you really desire and feels right.