There’s really nothing more infuriating than a guy that you’re dating when they do does disappearing acts just like a ghost. You spend an awesome weekend together and suddenly he vanishes. Why do they this? What should you do about it and why does it mean when he disappears just like that?
The most frustrating part is that we’re left to wonder and obsess until they miraculously resurface. This isn’t fair at all, so what’s behind your guy disappearing as a ghost would?
Why Does He Do This?
There are several explanations according to professionals:
- #1. He might be very busy at work/business.
- #2. He’s under the impression that you really don’t like him that much.
- #3. He’s really not that into you as you thought. (Naturally this is the worst case scenario.)
- #4. A switch goes off. He already has you so he doesn’t feel compelled to put as much effort. The hunt has come to an end.
What Should You Do About It?
Text him and give him 24 hours to reply back. I mean no matter how busy a person is they can spare 3 minutes out of a day at least to show some kind of interest/common courtesy. If they don’t text back or reply within this time period, delete his information and begin erasing him from your mind. There’s no reason you should be giving more than what you’re receiving.
If he’s the type that likes a challenge and the hunt if you will? Then you should back off some, for this is the only way to salvage any possibility with this kind of individual. (Which I think it’s a waste of time) But keep your schedule busy, refocus on yourself and hopefully, he’ll come back hunting you down.
At the end of the day, unless you like being in the dark, guys that do this and don’t offer any kind of explanations are probably not ready to be in a committed relationship. Don’t set your hopes up high for ghost guys, they’re unpredictable, selfish and they really just don’t care about much outside their own personal desires. However, there are exceptions, just always guard your heart.
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