When we look all around us, on tv and even in the movies, we’re constantly seeing the “bad boys” walking away with the girls of our dreams. Why is this; many of you may wonder? Lets stop and think about this for a moment. What is it about “bad boys” that attracts women? What exactly is it about the “bad boy” that makes women desire him? Are bad boys always more physically attractive? Of course not! So what is it?

Well, lets stop and think about what most bad boys have in common.

• They are confident with who they are.
• They don’t care about what people think about them.
• They don’t seek the approval of others.
• They are mysterious.
• They are challenging.

If you look at this list you’ll see that the things that really make “bad boys” attractive really has nothing to do with being bad. It has nothing to d with being bad and absolutely everything to do with being confident with who you are. So if that’s the case, then that just means the biggest nerd in the world can come across as just as appealing then a true “bad boy”. You can look the part and be the part of a bad boy without having the criminal record to go along with it.

Think about it, are the ladies really attracted to these “bad boys” based off their criminal record? Well, maybe there is one or two who is; but, I’m sure its safe to say that most aren’t! It has less to do with being bad and more to do with them being confident, doing what they want and keeping some mystery and challenge alive.